In the final chapter of Sacred Compass, Brent Bill explores how we can help others along the Way. There are ways we can offer aid to fellow travelers, helping them to read the sacred compass. Here are some of the ways Bill identifies that we can help others:
- Share our gifts. One great gift we can share is simply to listen to another person. We don’t need to have answers.
- Point to Christ. This is not so much saying, ‘thus says the Lord’ or offering advice as it is encouraging others to listen for the Lord speaking to them.
- Offer space for God. Our listening can help others listen for God as well. We might ask questions that help others consider what God might be saying such as:
--What to you need to move forward?
--Do you feel free
not to make a decision if you do not reach clear discernment?
--Are you seeking confirmation?
--How will you know you have the answer you seek?
- Offer a word if you are led to do so. We need to be open to offer a word to another if we feel led to do so, even if we aren’t asked. This, itself, is a matter of discernment for us. It is more than offering advice. It is speaking a word that God has given us to speak.
- Offer a warning. If we are considering offering a warning, we need to examine our motives. Is it because we think we know what is best or because God’s love compels us?
- Walking alongside. When others are going through a dark time, we can simply be with them.
Bill also describes the Quaker practice of forming what they call a Clearness Committee. This is a group of spiritual friends who agree to help us examine an issue and to try to discern where God is leading. The focus in a Clearness Committee is on allowing Christ to be the one who leads and guides.
As a person listens to the group of friends in the Clearness Committee, he or she seeks words that confirm or questions that point out things that have not been considered. The process used by the Clearness Committee needs to be bathed in prayer. There is often a playful attitude, a joy, that develops as the group seeks Christ’s leading. It is good to begin and end the Clearness Committee’s time together with silence as a way to let God lead.
Bill goes on to describe a specific process that a Clearness Committee might use that includes: introductions, a time of quiet, speaking the truth in love, listening deeply and concluding.
Brent Bill has given us a rich resource for seeking God’s will for our lives and thus following the Sacred Compass. If you have found my posts on the book interesting, I’d urge you to pick up a copy of the book, itself.
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